Wednesday, March 16, 2011

My girlfriend of nearly 50 Years turns Sixty

El Rodeo Elementary

When I was 10 years old my mother and sister and I moved into Beverly Hills. My mother wanted to be close enough to Elizabeth Arden's where she could walk to work, and to live in a neighborhood with a much better school system than the Los Angeles County school system.

Moving and leaving friends and familiar routines is never easy for children. El Rodeo Elementary School was where I first met my friend Brook. Being new to the school and feeling awkward and very out of place, I needed at least one friend and Brook befriended me early on.

I remember going to her house on Benedict Canyon and thinking she lived in a palace. My mother and sister and I lived in a one bedroom apartment where my mother slept on a pull out sofa in the living room and my sister and I shared the only bedroom. By comparison, Brook lived in a house that had a swimming pool and tennis courts and a spiraling staircase, with a maid that made the best fried chicken I'd ever eaten.

Lucky for me, Brook's parents both loved me and liked having me around. Brook's dad was a movie producer and her mother a housewife. I always wished my mother had someone to take care of her so she could be at home when I came home from school, but that was not her fate.

I'll never forget Brook's bedroom with her canopy bed and velvet bedspread that Brook was not allowed to sit on. Brook's mother wanted to keep that bed looking very pristine, I think. Brook's mother was an accomplished seamstress and I remember her mother coming into Brook's room to fit her for a dress she was making. From the outside looking in, I thought Brook had the perfect life.


I remember meeting Tyrone Power ( a very famous movie star at the time), in Brook's living room. I was awe struck. I think sometimes Brook might have envied my life a little too. Her parents were very busy and my mother lived her life for my sister and me. The grass is always greener, right?

When Brook and I were in high school Brook invited me to her sweet sixteen. We got dressed up and went to a fancy Italian restaurant where we met a well know comedian at the time, while having dinner. I'd have to ask Brook (my memory is shot), but I think his name was Bob Morrow...I could be wrong.

The photo below was taken at Brook's Sweet Sixteen slumber party. I 'm the dork on the right, she's the one on the left that looks like a model.

Brook's dad had a t-bird at the time that he let Brook drive around town, so much fun! She did something to upset her father at one point and that was the end of us driving around in that cute little t-bird.

We kind of lost touch our senior year as I recall, but immediately reconnected years later a the Hamburger Hamlet in Westwood when I was in town for a visit with my first born baby, years later. We have been there for each other for many important events, both happy and sad, over the years.

Brook's birthday is on March 20, just three days after my anniversary and a couple days before my youngest daughter's birthday March 22.

This photo was taken at Mr. Honey's sixtieth birthday party. That's a real friend that will drive two hours for your husband's birthday.

Hoping your sixtieth is fabulous and this will be you best year ever, dear Brook!

A Cousin Passes on a St. Patty's Day Joke

An Irish priest is driving down to New York and gets stopped for speeding in Connecticut. The state trooper smells alcohol on the priest's breath and then sees an empty wine bottle on the floor of the car. He says, 'Sir, have you been drinking?'
'Just water,' says the priest.
The trooper says, 'Then why do I smell wine?'
The priest looks at the bottle and says, 'Good Lord! He's done it again!'

*I have been out of commission for the last nine days because of a bad virus and infection that has had me laid up in bed, so this is my best attempt at humoring myself. I am on the mend and should be back at work by Friday.

Saturday, March 5, 2011

St. Patrick's Day 1973

The hand written wedding invitations went out shortly before our St. Patrick's Day wedding, 38 years ago. We had a decidedly 1970's wedding that included writing our own vows. We got engaged on Valentine's Day and married four weeks later, so there was no time for fancy printed invitations. My mother's friends were sure I must be pregnant, what with getting married in such a hurry. I was not pregnant! I was just scared to death of being married and I was afraid I would lose my nerve if we didn't get on with it. I know that sounds terribly unromantic, but I don't mean it that way. It's just that, I could never even commit to dating anyone for more than a month, so the thought of spending a whole lifetime with someone, even someone I loved, was daunting...but, alas, it worked out and we are still together and still love one another 38 years later.

My dress was bought off the rack at a hip boutique in Century City for a mere $35 and Mr. Honey wore a white denim Levi suit with a red velvet bow tie and a wildly colorful shirt and platform shoes, very stylish in the seventies. I think it had peacocks on it. What a goofy smile I had on my face...I was just so darn happy.

The photos have all faded, but the wedding cakes were made by a friend as a gift, and the frosting was green in honor of St. Patty's Day.

When I think back it's a miracle we made it to the alter because I was afraid to introduce Mr. Honey to my mother because of his long curly hair which I adored. He said to me, "What are you afraid of? Your mother's going to love me, everybody loves me!" and she did love him.




I guess you could say I've had the luck of the Irish!

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Getting Ready For St. Patty's Day

I'm ready for St. Patrick's Day and a little Irish luck. I bought this little tree at West Elm during the holidays and it came in handy at Christmas, as well as Valentine's Day , and now for St.Patty's Day. The truth is, I hate it when all the Christmas decorations come down and the feeling of festivity leaves the house, so I've found a way to extend the celebrating.


This St. Patty's Day teapot is over-sized and can serve a room full of thirsty tea drinkers.


There's a little Irish blood on my father's side of the family. All I know is my mother said she named me after the song Take Me Home Kathleen.

I'll take you home again, Kathleen
Across the ocean wild and wide
To where your heart has ever been
Since you were first my bonnie bride.
The roses all have left your cheek.
I've watched them fade away and die
Your voice is sad when e'er you speak
And tears bedim your loving eyes.
Oh! I will take you back, Kathleen
To where your heart will feel no pain
And when the fields are fresh and green
I'll take you to your home again!
I know you love me, Kathleen, dear
Your heart was ever fond and true.
I always feel when you are near
That life holds nothing, dear, but you.
The smiles that once you gave to me
I scarcely ever see them now
Though many, many times I see
A dark'ning shadow on your brow.
To that dear home beyond the sea
My Kathleen shall again return.
And when thy old friends welcome thee
Thy loving heart will cease to yearn.
Where laughs the little silver stream
Beside your mother's humble cot
And brightest rays of sunshine gleam
There all your grief will be forgot.
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