This past week my friend Sue was given a surprise birthday luncheon by two of her dear friends Wendy and Esther. Sue said she hadn't had a surprise birthday party since she was fifteen. Sue is usually the one throwing a party, so being the special guest, at a party given for her by her dear friends, was quite a treat.
The lunch was delicious and the conversation lively and let's face it, who doesn't love cupcakes?
These weren't any ordinary cupcakes, oh no, they were made with the recipe from the Barefoot Contessa, made by Sue's dear long time friend Esther. I have to tell you, they were heavenly, as was the rest of the lunch.
When I went back to work, after the luncheon had ended, one of my co-workers asked me what we ate. I told her we had the most fabulous spinach salad and fruit salad and delicious bread. My co-worker said, " you must have been lunching with rich people". Indeed I was. These ladies were rich with the love of their friendships.
The stories of womens lives are endlessly fascinating to me. Being a part of a celebration that honors life and friendship is truly a joyous gift.
I've known Sue for almost three decades and many of the ladies attending have known her for even longer.
Sue's friend Wendy told us it was a tradition in her home, when it was someones birthday, that each guest tell why the birthday girl was special to them. It was really very inspiring to hear how Sue had touched each one of friends lives. Sue has always been active in the community. The way Sue shares her talents and gifts with her friends and neighbors is one of Sue's most endearing qualities. Most of all, Sue's friends praised her love of motherhood and the wonderful role model that she has been to her children.
There is something so intimate and generous for women to share how they feel about their friends. At a very deep level, it is the one of the most nourishing things that women can do for each other.
